Relationship Problems

Sexual desire grows out of a healthy relationship. Most often, depressed sexual desire can be traced to difficulties in a relationship. People who feel angry at each other typically shy away from closeness.

To find out whether an interpersonal problem is the root of low libido, it's important to consider both the history of the relationship and the timing of the problem. Also, is libido low in general or only with this particular partner?

Counseling can help revive a troubled relationship and rekindle sexual feelings. Communication is key to this process as couples learn to talk openly and honestly about sexual needs and desires.

Couples who enjoy a strong relationship can usually work out differences in sexual desire. They also will be motivated to seek solutions for other problems that may be causing desire to wane.